“Emily just told us that a boy at school has been bothering her. He makes rude comments to her in the halls when there are no teachers around. She doesn’t know what to do. She’s not even sure the teacher will believe her because this boy is an A student. She doesn’t want us to make a big deal about it. But we’re furious and want it to stop. It’s outrageous and it’s making her dislike school.” Jonathan

Things to Consider
Verbal and physical harassment, sexual and non-sexual, are serious problems. They intimidate girls and often affect their school performance and self-confidence. The school or organization (team, club, synagogue) is legally responsible for stopping any kind of harassment and providing a safe and respectful environment for everyone there. Even though our daughter might not want us to intervene, this is a situation when we need to if she’s not able to go to the teacher or leader herself. Offer to help her practice how she will talk to the responsible adult and offer to go with her. If she chooses not to do that, tell her that it’s your responsibility to take action yourself. Even if she protests, she will be relieved that you are taking care of her.

What if your daughter is bullied by a “friend.” Parents on our facebook discussion board are discussing that now. Check out what those parents have to say.